Understood.

Some how I have grown older, grouchier, and been doing this a long time. Sometimes I don't wish to be accomodating any more. (and don't have to keep clients I don't want to work with.)

But I do understand.  I don't want to cause problems for a long term clients, just because of their spouse's ego. 

I might tell the egotist that there is a $200 charge to change places on the tax return though, just for satisfaction.!