Thanks - your response was cut short.  Will you please send the rest?  I would love to file them MFS, which is what I am doing for the Virginia return.

Page 9 of 511NR instructions says "The above exception does not apply if either spouse is a part-year resident or if an Oklahoma resident (either civilian or military) files a joint federal return with a nonresident military spouse.  They shall use the same filing status as on the federal return."