"I'm not looking to get ridiculed or snarked at, I am looking to report all of this correctly so that everything flows properly through both the parent and child tax returns for 2021."

No one is ridiculing you or providing snark. Think about how long it took each of us to read and respond, and many of us responded more than once. It's obvious you were struggling, and perhaps "too close" to the issue to understand which details applied.

Everyone is working on the same details.