BobKamman
Level 15

I think you mean she's 21 in 2020.  In other words, she's an adult.  

Have you seen the decree?  Most of them deal only with children (younger than 18, or sometimes through the last year of high school).  Some may include an agreement on who pays college costs, but apparently there are none here.  What support is father providing?

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